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This post has nothing to do with the film, which I have not watched yet (not sure I should…), but these words came to my mind when I was reviewing the last days. As I wrote in an older post, Ketsia had an intracardiac catheter intervention. It went well and the doctors are quite satisfied with the results. It can be still a long way till Ketsia will be able to drink her bottle all by herself but it is still a step forward… Even if this intervention (3 hours) was quite small in comparison to the first (10 hours), it is still an intervention under full anesthesia. Lisa and I had the chance to stay with Ketsia till she felt asleep on the « table » in this big room with a lot of machines and screens… Then started the wait. Where should we wait? How should we fill that time? We decided to wait at the « Ronald Mcdonald’s huis » because we were quite tired (I spent the night before with Ketsia at the hospital) and because we needed a quiet space. That is where the eat pray love part comes. All these things are important.

« Eat »
not just for you body, in order to stay in shape (which is really important for your kid) but also soul food
« Pray »
I really don´t know how we should have lived all these adventures without praying and prayers. It really helps and if you are praying for us, pray also please for the « Babyzaal » and the « Intensive Care » in Leiden. There are doing a really great job and there are so many babies with a story similar to Ketsia´s or sometime even tougher.
« Love »
Because all started with love. Love is the key which brings you joy despite the circumstances. And as I said all started with love:  » Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh » (Genesis 2:24). One flesh… It is always a wonder to see Ketsia who is the real mix of Lisa and me.

Place to the pictures now 😉


p.s.: I am very proud of my loooong name but the funny thing is that a lot a people seem to have some troubles with it…hahaha But the good thing is that we can laugh about that, just browse the pictures.



In an older post I wrote about the photo contest « Donker Oud Rijswijk ». Unfortunately was none of my photos in the top 10… So I will wait next year to still improve my art. Nevertheless It was a really nice evening with a « gezellige » atmosphere with a brass band, living crèche, Christmas Carols, hot white punch etc. When Ketsia is old enough, we will definitely go there.
It a small post tonight, I will let now the pictures speak for themselves and I hope you had a really great Christmas and I wish you a happy new year!

I hope you are also enjoying Christmas time. I really love that period of the year and this Christmas was really particular because it was Ketsia’s first Christmas. We celebrated it just the 3 of us as Ketsia’s condition was not ideal for travelling to France. We spent the last week at the hospital but were allowed to go home a the feeding tube in order to spend Christmas at home. Tomorrow we are heading back to the hospital and on Thursday (27th) Ketsia will have a catheter balloon intervention .
It is/was quite a tough time for us: spending a week at the hospital and then waiting for a new intervention… But still this Christmas was wonderful. I do miss France, my family and the really great time with my cousins, but I’m so thankful for Ketsia and for the fact that we could spend Christmas as a family.
I realized the way we have done so far, all the grace and joy we received.
As a proper Christmas celebration we had a lot of presents and also a really good meal as you can see on the pictures.

But first of all we also took the time to think about the true meaning of Christmas, namely the fact that once upon a time Jesus came to earth. The angel said « Fear not, for behold, I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord » (Lucas 2, The Bible).
This is it « Fear not and rejoice »! Although all our troubles, I know I can have « no fear » and rejoice.
I wish you all the same. Merry Christmas!

And as a small bonus, a small video that I made for Christmas Eve

Ho holy night at the farm from sam rakoto on Vimeo.




  • stefano - Ciao Sam, Lisa and Ketsia!
    a big Christmas greeting to you all.
    Just a line to let you know that we think of you from Italy.
    Giovanni Stefano KarinReplyCancel

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