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Bertina and Aaron are great people and I am glad to be able to call them my friends. I have to smile a little bit when I thing about how I became their « wedding photographer ». It all started when I landed on Bertina’s first blog. She had a dream: to become a photographer and guess what: she is now (check her website Bemind Fotografie and follow her on facebook). I started to post over photography, sharing the little knowledge I had. Then we met and I lent her my 60d.

In the mean time I heard and read about Aaron, at that time her fiancé and nowadays her beloved husband. A great « lovestory » of two really different people but who are linked by a very strong bond. Indeed more than being my friends, Aaron and Bertina are my brother and sister in faith. Their living faith in Jesus is a delight for our eyes and our ears. I am also so thankful for their prayers for our daughter Ketsia.

On last Friday they came over to our place and after some formal stuff for the coming wedding celebration we went to Scheveningen for a quick photoshoot, while my lovely wife was cooking for us (I love my wife). We enjoyed then a yummy diner and great talks.

I hope you can enjoy now the pictures (click on them to enlarge).

Two weeks ago Ketsia went to the hospital for a CT-scan because the cardiologists wanted to check her heart more precisely. We were told that we should be called in the following two weeks for the results. We decided to go Germany for a church camp with our Munich friends as we had planned long ago… It was there a blessed week. We could see a lot of old friends, could introduce Ketsia to them and could get a really good input. In the mean time we received the result of the CT-scan: Ketsia should go back to the Netherlands for a 2nd cardiac catheterization… We knew something would happen but we though not so quick. The good thing is that we were among our friends who prayed and are praying for Ketsia and for us. It was really a grace to be able to bring this new prayer point with my own mouth and with Ketsia and Lisa by my side.
On Monday 3rd June we were back at the LUMC. Although you know the place, you know some of the people, it is not really easy to bring your child back there. The first day went well and Ketsia did really great.

Then came the evening. Lisa stayed in the « Babyzaal » with Ketsia and I went to the Ronald Mcdonald house… I could not fall asleep so I sought fresh air by walking through the beautiful city of Leiden.

Tuesday 4th June, 8 am. 2nd cardiac catheterization. Ketsia is happy and playing with everything within easy reach. She is slowly realizing that something is coming, till the moment she enters the catheterization lab with people dressed in blue. She’s fighting against the anesthesia, crying a lot. It’s maybe the worse part of a day as parents even if you are close by and holding her hand to try to calm her down…. She eventually sleeps… It’s time to say good-bye and wait.

Everything is now in the hand of God and we are praying that He leads the hands of the doctors there. We decided to wait in the beautiful garden of the Ronald Mcdonald house. We were thankful for the sunny weather and decided to take there some photos in order to « kill » time. We had a very blessed moment just the two of us but the clock’s is ticking and still no call. When we thought it was about time, we walked back to the hospital and as we were on our way my mobile rang: we could pick up Ketsia in the awakening room. What a relief.

It is always a new begin on a journey to « normality » but we are not alone. HE shows us HIS grace everyday and we are so thankful for that. 2nd cardiac catheterization was a success and now the cardiologists understand a little bit more what is going on in Ketsia’s small heart. She is doing great but there are still « things » that should be monitored.

It’s our journey. It can be sometimes hard but it’s ours and we won’t exchange it. We are happy and thankful to be back home now. Thank you again for reading the blog and praying for Ketsia.

  • miniz tata - que je l’aime cette Ketsia; bien vive comme à son habitude: j’ai bcp aimé ce passage où elle se bat avec l’anesthésiste, petite choups de mon coeur!
    merci pr les photos, les nouvelles
    gros bisous à tous les 3ReplyCancel

Ketsia is now 8 months old and it was about time to give you some fresh news… I find it everyday amazing to see how quick babies can develop.. Yesterday was Ketsia still so tiny and now she’s already a little girl with her own personality… She knows exactly what she wants. She understands everyday a little bit more and loves playing peek-a-boo as you can see in the video below.

On the video you can also see that the feeding pipe is still here. She’s has been training to learn how to eat with the spoon and has made a lot of progress. Nevertheless they are not sufficient to remove the pipe. It’s quite a tough time but she is giving her best.
On May 21st Ketsia will have a CT scan because the surgeons want to see her heart more precisely. There are still some small defects and the resolution of the echographies is not sufficient to deliver an accurate diagnosis in order to decide what she next steps should be.

We are again in a wait-and-see situation but we are God so thankful for Ketsia who is such a lovely and joyful little girl. We also thank you for reading our news and praying for us. We will give you more news after the CT-scan but till then enjoy the pictures we took last week.

  • Bertina - So happy she is doing well 🙂 we just keep on praying! Love the pictures as well 🙂 especially in the yellow flowerfield 🙂ReplyCancel

  • miniz tata - it seems she said « ici » 🙂 at the end of the video!
    trop choups my little niece, I miss her so much!!!
    heaps of love and kisses and I’m waiting a skype video’s call asap
    xoReplyCancel

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